I met up with Ah Teck’s family today. After talking to them, I realized that although they do care a lot about him, they communicate very little with him. Alzheimer’s affects the whole family, so it is very important for everyone to talk to one another, share feelings and be supportive. They showed Ah Teck a lot of care and concern but because of his bad memory, they find it hard to communicate with him.
However, due to the problems Ah Teck’s family face when talking to him, I suggested to them to find help from healthcare professionals with special skills and training. These professionals’ job involves working with families affected by Alzheimer’s disease and helping the patient emotionally. Some examples are social workers, community nurses and counselors.
Better understanding of the disease is also very important for the patient as they would not feel as fearful of the illness. Many organizations operate telephone lines to provide information and support regarding any aspects of Alzheimer’s disease. These offer advice and assistance for the patient and practical and emotional help and information to families affected by the disease. They also put pressure on the government to spend more money on services to help look after people with Alzheimer’s disease.
Most Alzheimer’s support organisations have websites which offers the latest research news and information about the disease. Many also have a message board where people with Alzheimer’s disease can communicate with others around the world. Carers of such patients can also share their experiences with others. I urged Ah Teck’s family to go to these websites and learn more about Alzheimer’s disease and how, as a family, they can help Ah Teck. By getting to know the disease, Ah Teck’s family can help him cope with his symptoms and emotional stress. Also, Ah Teck can go to the website and talk to other patients or carers of the world. This way, he would not feel afraid and can understand that people with the same disease are faced with the same situation as him.
Ah Teck has always been a faithful Christian. I think it would be comforting if he talked to his priest about his feelings and thoughts. It is helpful and calming for him to attend religious services. If Ah Teck reached the stage of not even able to go for church, I suggest that his family invite the priest to their house to talk to him.
I hope, by interacting more, Ah Teck can get to know the disease and not be afraid to face it. Dr. Nori Graham, chairman of Alzheimer’s Disease International, said at the launch of Alzheimer’s World Health Day (annually, 21st September) in April 2001,“Everyone whose life is affected by dementia will find it easier to be courageous when they know the people around them and their government recognize its appalling nature.” Also, I urged Ah Teck’s family to show love for him and to support and fight the disease alongside with him. As quoted from
- Wang Yue Wan (27) 4G
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